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How can a person be a "true" friend
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First, I don't enjoy labels. They can get a little too generic and convenient at times. However, in this case it applies. Extreme splitting, self harm, volatile relationships, extreme mood swings, extreme impulsive behavior, self loathing...the whole outfit. I was in a relationship with this woman for 6 months. We have been apart 5 months as of today. Still struggling with not being in the relationship. Most people respond by saying this is because I have low self esteem. I would ask you to be a little more open minded. I don't want back in a relationship with this person. Don't want any real contact with them. However, it is not hard to understand why this person struggles with this. Actually, I'm not sure how they are doing as well as they are. One article suggests we shouldn't hold this disorder against them anymore than we would blame someone for being diabetic. This, however, seems like a very unpopular opinion in social circles. I see many good qualities in this person. I also see people running for cover to get away from her. My heart goes out to her, despite the problems she dishes out. For the record, I am not a sympathetic person. I don't support those who aren't willing to get their acts together. Yet....this case strikes me entirely different. How can I be supportive of this person in a way that is in both our best interests? Answer to this Question How can a person be a "true" friend |
